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Need help please .
Hello to everyone , some years ago I asked about hiv and thankfully you guys helped me a lot for peace of my mind and getting knowledge about hiv ..
Recently what is happened to me is , I had protected vaginal intercourse with a csw . I dont know if she got hiv or not but I saw many tattoos on her somehow made me feel little more worried.
After the vaginal intercourse she took off the condom which was full of her vaginal fluids and started to masturbate me till I cum . In this point what scares me is , I was having a little big scar at the right side of the penis head which was not bleeding but pretty pinky and swallowed.
I have read a lot about this in the previous questions and all experts says , hiv will die outside the host . But still I got very stressed because vaginal fluids was on that scar on the penis head .
I got a son and I am very scared to pass it to him if I got something from this mistake .
Do you think I can get hiv from this incident ? and if so when should I get tested ? is 14 days combi test is enough ?(So hard to wait for it even :( )
I will be very happy if someone can give me reply . Thanks a ot and sorry for inconvenience .
Recently what is happened to me is , I had protected vaginal intercourse with a csw . I dont know if she got hiv or not but I saw many tattoos on her somehow made me feel little more worried.
After the vaginal intercourse she took off the condom which was full of her vaginal fluids and started to masturbate me till I cum . In this point what scares me is , I was having a little big scar at the right side of the penis head which was not bleeding but pretty pinky and swallowed.
I have read a lot about this in the previous questions and all experts says , hiv will die outside the host . But still I got very stressed because vaginal fluids was on that scar on the penis head .
I got a son and I am very scared to pass it to him if I got something from this mistake .
Do you think I can get hiv from this incident ? and if so when should I get tested ? is 14 days combi test is enough ?(So hard to wait for it even :( )
I will be very happy if someone can give me reply . Thanks a ot and sorry for inconvenience .
Since you have other posts here, you know the answer to this. There are only three risks for hiv. Having unprotected vaginal, unprotected anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. At no time were you at risk for HIV. You do not get HIV from tattoos and it is a good sign she uses condoms to protect herself from people she is with like you. While you think she is using the condom to protect you, in actuality, she doesn't want to get anything herself from you. So, the fact that she used a condom means she's careful. Just keep that in mind.
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Thanks very much for your response ! Even vaginal fluid on a scar on penishead , still no risk ?
Correct! Even with this, it was no risk.
Again and again thank you very much for your time and reply . So according to this I can be relax to have a relationship with my wife isn't?. Nowadays I even scare to come closer to my son . stupid mistakes of man .
You don't have HIV.
I forgot to write that she started to masturbate me with the same hand she took of the condom , her hand was with vaginal fluid from condom . and stupidly I did not wash my penis till morning .
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (maybe blood, maybe cuts, hiv touching condom, etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
Your obsession with washing dead virus would be a waste of time.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
Your obsession with washing dead virus would be a waste of time.
thanks a lot for your response !
I see you're still asking questions above though so you must still be ignoring the advice to ask yourself the QUESTION so I'll answer it for you. Answer > No there wasn't a penis in my anus when she masturbated me so I had no risk and should move on, instead of asking the same purposeless questions over and over.
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