Had the condom failed you would have known without a doubt.
i'd be willing to bet that if the condom broke...you would know about it. professionals use condoms to protect THEMSELVES from YOU giving them something. she would have been upset ! ! !
Thanks, Teak and LIZZIE. but as i described above, i didn't pay any attention about the condom during the whole sex. So is there any possibility that the condom broke without my notice? Because i didn't see the condom when the CSW was withdrawing it from my penis. Thanks for your attention in advance!
of course there is that "possibility"...but i'm telling ya that if it did, she would have been upset and told you.
Thanks, LIZZIE, yes, i can see now. and it means that i don't have need to have a test for HIV?? Am i correct? i am very worried just now before i posted, you know i just felt extremely guilty and regret, but feel some release now after your answer.
do you see what you just wrote? "i felt extremely guilty and regret". that's your answer for ya.
yes, but as the possibility just exsists. So i had those feelings. Do you think that is it possible that she also didn't notice when the condom failed? ?
I'm sorry for asking questions but as it is maybe my last question, i need the clear and definate answer, Thanks, LIZZIE!
there is NO WAY IN HELL that she wouldnt have noticed :)
a condom break is catastrophic and would have looked like a frayed hula hoop around your penis. it is not some little microscopic hole.
OK, i see. Then i can feel relax. Really appreciate, Lizzie. So can i return to normal life and have regular sex with my girl friend from now? I haven't had sex with her for more than 3 weeks by now, after that episode.
If a condom breaks, it does so catastrophically....it ends up either like a hula hoop around the base of your penis, or like a peeled banana skin...either way, you BOTH would have noticed without a shadow of a doubt.
The only thing you may want to do is have an STD panel done to test for STD's OTHER than HIV. Other STD's (gonorrhea, etc) are much more common and easily transmittable. Those tests are conclusive just 3 days after an encounter. So, for your peace of mind, and to protect your GF, have a basic set of tests done, and then move on.
NO HIV risk whatsoever, though...you are in the clear for that!
Thanks so much for your detail answer. SO i have no need to test for HIV? Actually, I didn't have any rough feeling when removing my penis together with condom from her vagina. And soe smooth feeling just. I think just it is anxiety and fear drove me to believe that i was contracted HIV , and on the other hand, i am not willing to make any test for HIV, because if the result is pos., then i will be mad. I think.
My only recommendation is to have a basic STD panel done to rule out any other STD infections. NO HIV TEST IS NEEDED!
Ok, Thanks a lot.
Is there any recommendation for me, Teak and LIZZIE? Need i the HIV test from my description, for your opinions? It's my final question, pls give me definate reply to get out of worry. Thanks All!!
They already answered you! NO risk= NO test!
Thanks guys for your helps! ! i feel much relax now for vagina sex, hope the condom would have not broken as you analised. but during the end of that night, she also performed unprotected oral sex for me, which i was the insertive part. It lasted about 5 mins. Would it increase my risk of contracting HIV?? Pls help, Thanks!!
receiving oral sex is not a risk for contracting hiv