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Nurse says its possible that ive got HIV/AIDS

I was involved with a call girl but my condom slipped , i was since diagnosed for chlamidia and im now worried i might have caught hiv because in this part of the world its rife.I saw clearish fluids all round in the condom and not at the tip of the condom-could these have come from the woman? when the condom slipped.

The woman removed my condom and i fear she might have touched my sensitive parts with her fluids and may be infected me?

I was tested after 3 1/2 months - but experienced enlarged bean size lymphnodes on my pelvic area for 2 days six weeks later and a burning toung that looks like it has a thick white patech that cannot be brushed away.The patch is made up of bristles that look like a white puppys wet hares.I have been told this is a sign of AIDS by a nursing aquaintance of mine and that i must continue to test after another 3 months.

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186166 tn?1385259382
question.   what do you mean by your condom slipped?  did it come totally off and expose the head of your penis?
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Believe who you want.
The FDA which regulates HIV tests in America is the hardest government agency in the world to get anything passed though. It takes a lot of time and money. The testing manufactures spent millions to get the approval from 6 months to 3 months, due to research trials and testing. Your friend might have seen people test positive after 3 months years ago but not recently. If he did then he is not being told by patients about more recent exposures.

So I will not say he is lying but he might not being fully informed.
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apparently the argument that he has is that the nurses at the std clinics are more experienced than Drs-for obvious reasons.Im my country Botswana, you only go to visit a medical Dr when all else has failed because their charges are out of the reach of the majority.So many people go to the clinics which are highly subsidised by the government for much cheaper medical care as well as testing and claims that out of his 10 years experience he has has encountered a significant number of people who only have detectable antibodies at six months and even beyond and unfortunately its not just him who sings that chorus.Could it be that everyone is lying and for what gain?What does my aquaintance gain from making me more miserable, its not like i slept with his wife.

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Your friend is not up to date with facts. A test at 3 months is conclusive.
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