PEP Requirement

[ranasanaullah]

I am 25 year old male. My marriage is scheduled in the end of August this month.
I am here to discuss about PeP because of my 2 silly exposures (2 days back).

I was on a trip with my friends to Singapore. We were having drinks and enjoying our days. a day before yesterday and yesterday we went to a strip club.

on the first day I met with a stripper. We had lots of Kisses which includes saliva also. She was topless. I sucked her breasts with nipples for 4 5 minutes. Meanwhile i was tickling her vagina with my fingers as well. Her vagina was very much wet. No other event happened.

Yesterday we again went to the same club and this time  i chose another girl. This event also includes deep kisses, Breast sucking ( while sucking her breasts some liquid came in my mouth which i ignored). I ticked her wet vagina and inserted my finger deep for 4 5 minutes max.

If They were HIV positive. My Questions are  

When should i start PeP
And till.how long i should avoid unprotected sex with my partner.

[CurfewX]

The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.

You cannot get HIV through your fingers, EVEN IF your finger gets blood or other bodily fluid on it. Kissing and sucking breasts isn't a risk for HIV.

If in doubt, re-read items 1 and 2 listed above.

You had ZERO RISK for HIV.  No PEP needed. There is no information you could add to this event that would make it a risk for HIV.

[ranasanaullah]

What If The women has milk in her breasts and i have drank soms milk from her breasts while sucking them??

[CurfewX]

Read items 1. and 2. above, which are the only risks for HIV in adults. Are breasts or breastmilk on that list?

[ranasanaullah]

No Its not there.

[AnxiousNoMore]

At this point, you should move on, because I'm sure you know the meaning of the word "only."

[ranasanaullah]

Last Comment From My side

Will it be good to start my new life with my partner unprotected?

What would have you done if u were at my place?

I dont want to put her life at risk.

Thanks for your patience and help.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Reread all the advice because your last questions show that you haven't understood any of it. If you can't move on see a therapist to deal with your hiv fixation.

[ranasanaullah]

I have understood all the things you have said. Just trying for reassurance in direct words. Thanks for your valuable time and help.

[GuitarRox]

I think when someone has a partner, it does ratchet up the anxiety because no one wants to harm our loved ones. But don't let anxiety cloud the information.  Look at the risks Curfew has given you and apply that.  When it is no risk, don't let anxiety take over. Good luck

[ranasanaullah]

Thanks Guitar
Actually Internet is full of information. Various doctora and websites are stating this as a potential risk. That is why i am bit anxious.

[GuitarRox]

You should stay OFF the internet then. This is a moderated forum guided  by opinion of experts in the field of HIV. All info here that is allowed is accurate based on what experts in the field put forth. There is a big difference between theoretical risk and risk. No one gets HIV from your activity. Hope you get help with your anxiety but you'll get no different information from this forum and we won't continue to reassure you.

[AnxiousNoMore]

"I have understood all the things you..." No, you haven't understood anything you read here. You are negative but don't understand that and keep asking questions. Your last 2 questions were silly. If you understood what you were told you would stop asking silly questions.

[ranasanaullah]

Thanks a Lot Guitar and CurfewX

[GuitarRox]

You're welcome. take care