Hello, thank you in advance for your input. I believe I don't need testing and I'm ok but I'm looking for reassurance, mostly to help with my anxiety.
Here are the facts. 4 days ago I had protected oral and vaginal sex with a call girl in apartment in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. Apartment was clean and nicely decorated.
- She started with a light massage. Then she put condom on my penis before starting oral. The condom was her condom. I did not check the brand, but it fit correctly.
- After less than 2 minutes oral (with condom), we had protected vaginal sex (using same condom). She was lying on bed, I was standing.
- Ejaculated after very short time during vaginal (less than 1 minute) into condom. I withdrew and condom seemed intact and fully covering my penis. I removed condom and tied top of it, I could see no holes and my semen was contained inside. I have no reason to believe that condom was broken.
- I did not kiss her but I did lightly finger her vagina and sucked her breasts and nipples.
- I had shower immediately after and washed with soap (which she provided).
I asked her if she was tested and she emphatically stated "absolutely".
I haven't had any symptoms of anything (other than anxiety)
What is my risk for STD / HIV? I feel like hell, mostly because I am married and shouldn't have done this. It was one time discretion.
Please help me.