My exposure is as follows, we used a condom she has had for about 2 years, I checked the expiration it said 2012/13, can't remember.
Vaginal intercourse took place for only a couple of seconds, before intercourse we grinded on top of my penis, so the condom was no longer a "tight fit" it was a big stretched out on my penis, but it was still on.
I ejaculated inside her and as far as I know the condom caught the semen, I even inspected the semen for holes after I took it off in the bathroom.
Here is where I'm frightened, I never get sick much but over the course of a year I've been seeing this girl we've had oral sex, and she told me has has had unprotected vaginal sex a couple of times. Something weird has been happening to me, i've been feeling extremely weak and tired, so weak that the doc says, I have low blood count, and I can hardly even move sometimes.
My questions,
is there any correction between low blood count and possible early symptoms hiv?
also, I read on here the chances of contracting hiv from a single episode of unprotected vaginal intercourse is about 1 in 10,000 or 1,000 i forget, if this is the case, why do so many people contract it on their first time unprotected?
Also, please advice on my situation. thanks.