Please help me :(

[peter_v]

Hi Doctor,

I am 26 years male.  I had several encounters with CSW ( more than 20 ). I had deep french kiss couple of times,  breast sucking ( hard ,  probably some milk or sweet went into my mouth as well ), then had protected vaginal sex with them.. Now I am really affraid to get tested.  I am really dying of fear.  PLEASE HELP ME GOD. :( :(

[Iwan25]

Worriedandworriedmore is I'm afraid way off on this one. You will know if a condom has broken and it did not happen in your case thus talk of quality is a moot point as you were protected. Yes HIV can be transmitted to babies via breast milk but NOT adults. I would not recommend testing based on the information provided but for peace of mind a HIV Duo test at 28 days post exposure will be conclusive.

[peter_v]

Can you too help me on this question plzzz :(

[peter_v]

Thanks diver but is that what the last comments entered by worriedandworriedmore true that i need to get tested :( as i m in a bit risk ( because the risk is not zero )... Please help me on this my last question

[diver58]

No, it is not the number of sexual activities but the nature of the activity that matters. You may go for protected sex as many times as you want, without a risk but just one episode of unprotected sex puts you at HIV risk

[peter_v]

Yes I understand completely about the test,  however could you please answer my last question ???  I remember there were no instance or condom failure.. but I am just worried about the number of times I was involve in this activity. :(  does this puts me in risk ?

[diver58]

If you are in doubt, the only way to rule out the infection is a test. If your last exposure is more than 3 months old, get a common antibody test done, or if less than 3 months but more than 4 weeks, get 4th generation Duo test to collect your conclusive report and move on with your life.

[peter_v]

Yes, But I was worried because there are many instances ( more than 20 )...  I swear I won't  be going on this path again :( :( .. could you please help me on this.. ?

[diver58]

None of the activities you mentioned, puts you at HIV risk. You are fine. Condom protected sex gives you 100% protection against HIV and other STD's if it does not fail during sex., and you never experienced any failure of condom I guess.