Thanks for the support. I'll be sure to let you know the result of my test(s).
You are fine, as I said, probability of getting HIV from a single isolated event with someone of unknown health status is not significant, just rule it out by test, as it is the only accurate and conclusive way to rule out the possibility of transmission.
Condoms are good as they provide 100% protection against HIV, however one important point we must bear in our mind, the guaranteed protection offered by the condom is valid as long as it remains intact. Once the condom fails (and condoms do fail due to reasons), a totally protected sex turns otherwise immediately. Therefore consistent and correct use of condom is the key for our safeguard, if we decide to go with someone, outside our mutually committed monogamous relationship.
I know that now. Never felt this anxious about anything. Feel like I'm going to be sick.
To avoid feeling bad, wear a condom in the future. It really is that simple.
Great. Feel even worse now. Will just have to suck it up for the next few weeks.
28 day DUO test.
One time encounters can happen.
Agreed. There ISN'T going to be a next time.
So there isn't a reliable test two weeks post exposure?
Say she does have HIV... what is the likelihood of contracting it from her? I've read a lot of comments on this forum suggesting that the likelihood is negligible, e.g., you would have to have sex with an infected women everyday for five years...
Unprotected sex with anyone, outside our mutually committed monogamous relationship, is a risk. So you exposed yourself to the risk, though not very significant, since it is not confirmed that she was having HIV or not, however, though the risk is not significant, it is not zero either.
In this situation, the only way to rule out the infection is to get ourselves tested. A Duo (4th generation HIV Antibody+Antigen) test is not considered to be conclusive before 4 weeks of exposure, therefore you need to wait a little more.
Alcohol and a woman, not a good combination as they do not mix well, next time, keep them separate