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Hiv from receiving oral? Can someone help me please. So scared !!!!!!

Good evening and thank you for taking your time out of your day to read this and help me have peace of mind I know it is all over the website but I am curious because last night I had received oral sex from a “former” so she says service woman escort and that is all we did it was about a five minute ordeal I did not notice any cuts or blood anywhere but I am a nervous wreck about HIV because I didn’t know if she has any cuts or sores in her mouth. please help me and let me know what Because the Internet says 85 million different thingsI just want to have a clear peace of mind so what are my chances of receiving HIV from getting oral sex from a woman that was the service girl or what are My chances because I read all different types of things on the Internet and there’s all different types of answers so I just want a peace of mind and somehow please thank you again please help, thank you so much for your time
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You had no risk and a test would be a waste of time. We rely on the opinion of expert doctors, and do not pay attention to claims all over the internet since some sites are overly conservative and use theoretical risks that have never occurred over 40 years. You need to stop Googling COLD TURKEY and get back to your normal life because the more you Google the more mixed up messages you will find that will just make you more afraid.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead. If he was positive then his ejaculate had dead virus when it hit your anus, and dead is final as you know.

Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV.  No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
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Thank you so much for your help. Made me feel ten times better. I truly allergists itnsnd good you have an amazing day
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