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RUBBING AND ORAL SEX BUT NO PENETRATION

Dear. i went to a sex worker.. she was on me and we were kissing vigorously.. My  penis was not in her vagina rubbing her thighs and stomach.. Until i ejaculated.. She assured also no insertion was done as i was not wearing any condom and sex workers refuse penetration without condom.. Just worried if i contracted HIV and this anxiety has actually killed me..
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3191940 tn?1447268717
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The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Sharing IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.

No other event that you can think of, including the event you mentioned, puts you at risk for HIV. This is a NO RISK event.  You do not need to test for HIV.

No penetration = no risk.
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Okay thanks alot. Just that after 3 months started having cough/ soar throats itching. Slight fever put we worried and wierd dreams. Thanks anyway.
Everyone got a cough this year but only a few had hiv.
Why sex worker did not allow you to penetrate her ? Cause there was no condom ans she was worried you might infect her by hiv . She is expert of how to protect her self more than protecting you . After 3 months of no risk exposure you got sore throat and cough and you beleive that this might be hiv symptoms this means you still do not beleive that you have no risk exposure and highly stressed . This is not the only time you will get cough or sore throat .all people gets frequently  cough and sore throat . The bottom line from my point of view if each time you will get cough you will link to hiv for this no risk exposure , it would be better to take any hiv test to beleive that you do not have hiv .
I agree with you.. This anxiety had made me shiver.. and anxiety comes with hundred of symptoms that make me go made..
The chills are just not ending. Are these due to anxiety...
This is an HIV forum.  No one can tell you what caused your chills. We can only tell you they have nothing to do with HIV. If you're concerned about your non-HIV related chills, see a doctor. It seems you should discuss your anxiety with a doctor anyway.
@sexy4u2015
Yes, anxiety causes you fears and sheivring
You do not have hiv
This is absolutely 0 risk exposure .
Take any hiv test to relief your self and close this file forever .
This is not anxiety forum and no one here can help you more than this.
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You should have moved on from this non event on Feb 28 - considering how many people, including the sw have advised you. Seek therapy instead of continuing to imagine and post about a silly hiv infection idea that no one here will ever believe. hiv science is 40 years old, so you won't convince anyone here that you have made a new discovery about how it is transmitted.
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Rest easy, as stated, you're concerns about HIV are unfounded. HIV is not transmitted by the exposure you had. I know your anxious brain keeps you wanting to 'be sure' but that is anxiety. Nothing to do with an actual risk for HIV as you had none. Reassurance seeking is the hallmark of anxious thoughts. The more you seek it either by asking or researching yourself, the more trapped you are by the thought THAT ISN'T REAL. So, try your best to just move on as this was not a risk. Coughs are common and HIV is not.
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