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im extremely scared

A little more than three weeks ago I went to an adult bookstore. Any ways to make a long story short I ended up receiving oral sex from another male and this has been bothering me ever since I'm tereified that I may have caught hiv I don't know if this guys was positive or not but I can't the idea out of my head I have got tested for chlymedia gonoreah hpv and syphillis all came negative three weeks after that I even paid 250 for a pcr test and I still haven received my results this is really playing with my emotion I have been real itchy around my pee hole and a lil on an area of my foreskin no noticable bumps or anything like that can someone help me out with some words of wisdom.. I'm truely terified I have to much to live for..
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186166 tn?1385259382
re-read what i told you above...FEAR IS NOT FACT !  

in the whole pandemic of hiv, no one has ever contracted hiv from receiving oral sex.
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Thanks man I really appreciate it I don't wanna waste any more of ur time
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You never had a risk,remember!
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Hey everyone I got my pcr dna results back and all negative I'm still a lil worried should I still get tested after the three months I know it sounds stupid but I'm just wanna be safe? I noticed some swelling in my mouth and under my jaw I think its a saliva gland not a lymph node what u think..
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There is no "what ifs" if you just stick to the facts and take no notice of the bogus websites out there that are providing false information and spreading fear.Don,t go falling for there trap.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you have been assessed as not having a risk from what you have described.

kindly move along...our answers WONT change
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I'm most certain that's it dude its just all these what ifs u know what I mean..
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Really what's ur situation...
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And your not about to make history and be the first.Seek some help for your anxiety and irrational thoughts.I think your feeling guilty about what you did,that,s what,s clouding your judgement.
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hey im scared i have hiv
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Thanks guys I letting it out really helped
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I'm just so dam scared I have a potential wife and a beautifull baby girl and idk I wanna be around for them and I have been feeling for swollen nodes and nothing iv been have minor throught issues but I can almost contribute that to smoking like crazy since I did thid its making my anxiety go nuts...
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You just wasted $250.oo for nothing,because testing is not required for your oral sex encounter.Hiv is not transmitted via oral sex.You never had a risk.
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186166 tn?1385259382
hiv is NOT transmitted through oral sex.  

below are some quotes from the hiv specialists here at medhelp:

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex.  The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way.  Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk".  There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex.  Please educate yourself about the real risks.  If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. "   DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..."   DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?  
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA

The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort).  DR. HOOK

"With regard to the question you ask, I will repeat, as I’ve said more times than I can think- there are NO credible cases in which persons have acquired HIV through performance of oral sex- none!!.  The chance that you will be the first is ridiculously low.  You are more likely to be hit by lightening while reading my reply to you. DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." DR HOOK

"There is no credible evidence that HIV is spread through oral sex, with or without the presence of cuts or blood in the persons mouth."- DR HOOK

"Oral sex. there is no evidence that HIV is spread through giving or receiving oral sex"- DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread through oral sex."  DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread through giving or receiving oral sex"   DR HOOK

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