Risk Assessment, Please help me please.

[Horizon11]

Dear Sir/ Mam

First of all I really appreciate the work your organization is doing.

I will make my sincere donation to this organization in near future.

I am sleepless and in tension from past 1 month, a month days back I was in russia and I went to a female prostitute, I asked for condom before sex but she refused to give saying she don't have, after that I used my condom which I normally carry.

Refusing for condom by a prostitute in 40s was unusual so I changed my mind and I didn't had insertive sex with her but she gave me BLOW JOB OVER THE CONDOM and I SMOOCH HER FOR ABOUT 15 MINS FOR 2  times. I want to draw your attention that I had BLEEDING DEEP CRACK ON MY LIPS DUE TO COLD(temperature was 0 degre Celsius) IT WAS VISIBLE THAT BLOOD IS COMING OUT IN SMALL AMOUNT FROM LIPS, I SMOKE alot due to which LIPS are always Chapped and broken.

                        THUMB WHICH I USED TO RUB HER ***** ALSO HAD CRACK SKIN DUE TO COLD but it was not ACTIVELY BLEEDING, BUT IT WAS VERY RED BECAUSE UPPER LAYER OF SKIN WAS COMING OUT.

I also did FROTTAGE using condom.

After sex I did WATER TEST with CONDOM, It was OKAY(NOT LEAKING).

I am concerned about:

1) DEEP BROKEN(CRACKED)/LIPS WITH WHICH I SMOOCH AND BLOOD WAS COMING.

2) THUMB- USED TO RUBB HER *****

3) I DID NOT TOOK BATH FOR 2 DAYS AND I WAS IN SAME UNDERWEAR IT WHICH GOT WET WITH VAGINAL FLUID.

4) I had FLU THAT DAY. IS IT A MATTER OF CONCERN?

5) I have Psoriasis, does it increase the chance of getting Hiv?

FURTHER

IS THERE ANY MEDICINE I CAN TAKE TO REDUCE THE RISK of HIV????????????


I AM DYING FROM INSIDE PLEASE HELP ME WITH YOUR EXPERTISE AND I HAVE MADE MY MIND THAT I WILL NOT GO TO ANY PROSTITUTE IN MY LIFE.

PLEASE HELP ME

REGARDS
K
23 YEAR OLD.

[Sara_MHModerator]

Hello.  As stated, nothing you mention, including your gum disease, is a risk for HIV.  If you test for peace of mind, that is up to you.  However, your tests will be negative based on what you have written on the forum.  We wish you the best and are closing this thread.  

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[Horizon11]

Thank you so much for the answer, I really appreciate that you took some time for me from your busy schedule.

One thing I FORGET TO MENTION IS I HAVE PERIODONTAL DISEASE, BUT MY GUMS USUALLY DON'T BLEED AFTER BRUSHING TEETH.

I am also more concerned because RUSSIA is facing a big crisis of HIV. Assuming that women to be POSITIVE AND since SHE WAS IN 40'S THERE ARE MORE CHANCES THAT SHE WILL BE HAVING GUM DIEASES, ASSUMING THAT SHE IS POSITIVE IT WILL LARGELY INCREASE THE SEVERITY OF HER GUM DISEASE.
WHAT ARE the CHANCES THAT SHE MIGHT HAD PASSED HIV DURING DEEP KISSING

IS PERIODONTAL disease Increase the chance by large MARGIN ? ( I BRUSHED MY TEETH 2 HOURS BEFORE VISITING HER, does it makes any difference???)

Do I Need HIV testing?

Thank you in Advance.

[RubyWitch]

First.........this is a free website and we do not accept donations.

Since you were wearing a condom, you had NO RISK from the blowjob.

You had NO RISK from your cracked, bleeding lips. Kissing is not a risk for HIV but considering this woman refused the use of a condom, I would suggest you have an STD panel done. There ARE some STD's that can be passed from skin to skin contact. I suggest you play this one safe.

NO RISK from your thumb even with crack from being chapped. HIV can only be transmitted INSIDE the human body.

Frottage is NEVER a risk if you are clothed or wearing a condom, which you were.

Your underwear getting wet with her vaginal fluids is NOT A RISK. That is NOT how HIV is transmitted.

That you had the flu that day is ONLY of concern to the woman you were with.

Psoriasis does NOT increase your chances of being infected.

There is medication to reduce the risk of contracting HIV, it is known as PEP. But before ANY doctor will put you on this treatment, you have to have had UNPROTECTED INSERTIVE VAGINAL SEX. You DID NOT HAVE THIS RISK!!!! Also, you MUST begin this treatment within 72 hours of your exposure.

You had a PROTECTED blowjob.......absolutely NO RISK for HIV.

The kissing, I discussed earlier.

Please consider getting yourself educated about HIV and safe sex.
RubyWitch



    

Doing the "water test" on a condom is a total waste of time. When, and if, a condom fails, (breaks) it fails catastrophically. There is virtually nothing left of it except the band around the base of your penis.