I am a 52 year old gay man and my heart really goes out to you as I read of your experience. I want to give you some loving, fatherly advice, not soon enough to have helped you avoid this situation, but perhaps soon enough to help you avoid a similar situation. You are young and you are horny. It is very difficult to think clearly when you're horny. It is even more difficult to think clearly once you're in the midst of a sexual encounter of any kind. You are 22, maybe even 23 now. You have your whole life ahead of you. I encourage you to love and respect and care for yourself so much that you NEVER ever do anything you don't completely want to. You are sovereign over your body. You have absolute control over your choices every moment of every day and even if you get yourself into a situation that you're uncomfortable with, you are still free to leave that person or situation immediately. You don't owe anyone an explanation. You don't need an excuse. Out of love for yourself, get up, put on your clothes, and get out of there! There are an infinite number of other opportunities to love and be loved in ways where you know without a doubt that you're glad to be where you are. When in doubt, get out! That's my saying. Again, my heart goes out to you as a young man. I wish you the best, a life filled with much love and good health and fulfillment.
Still not an HIV concern.
I am concerned with the fact that he had taken off and put on the same condom about 8 times. He also flipped the condom inside out while doing so. So that would mean that if he had pre-cum it would have went inside me. Can you please get back to me about this?
STD questions have to be posted in the STD Forum.
I understand. So I would be at a higher risk of contracting an STD over HIV.
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
So after him ejaculating, rubbing his penis on my anus with semen left on it is not a risk to transmitting HIV? But it's a body fluid. And what about him rimming me?