I rarely have sexual encounters because I don’t like the risk but I bottomed for a guy on August 13 and he assured me he had just tested negative a week before our encounter. I made sure he wore a condom anyway. Afterwards I didn’t notice him remove his condom. It was just gone. I could have missed it, I’m not sure. So I asked him to confirm he had it on the whole time and he assured me he would never do such a thing. Exactly 72 hours later I started with severe lower back pain, felt chilled and tired so I went to bed. In the morning I woke up with a fever and still had back pain. Laying in bed totally relieved it so I pretty much slept for 48 hours. The fever was low, usually under 100F. Highest-100.8. Disappeared after 48 hours and I felt fine. Then to my horror I started with what looked like a heat rash on my chest. Over the course of the day it spread all over my torso and arms. It did not itch and disappeared 3 days later. Had a slight headache when bending forward the next few days. No swollen glands or sore throat. I’m petrified and will test when I can. But in the meantime I’m trying to hang onto my symptoms occurring too soon. Can anyone tell me when symptoms occur? Every site gives a different answer. 3 days, several days, not less than a week, starting in two weeks....Please help. I’ve never been this scared in my life. BTW the guy sent me his negative hiv test results dated a week before just as he said, but he could have been in the seroconversion window so that doesn’t totally make me feel better.