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very much concerned

Hii.

Recently (3weeks back), i had sex with CSW in a massage parlour. It was protected, condom didnt break or slip. i was down, and the sex was not lasted for more than 1 minute. Please give ur expertise.

1) condom didnt break, but if there is any tiny break or hole, this will cause any infection
2) while removing condom, she could have accidently touched my urethra, but i am not sure. Whether this can cause any transmission.
3) Should i go for any testing, as i am getting married next month; i am confused how to approach my marriage in these circumstance. I dont know how i got in to these situation.
4) some website says, condom is only 98% safe, this will be applicable even if we use condom properly ( i mean with condom break).

Advice will be highly appreciated
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YOU DID NOT HAVE A RISK. MOVE ON
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teak,

I read some internet stuffs (about ARS), so i was looking at my symptoms, so i felt this weight loss. Please advice, weight loss is an possible symptom. And other symptoms can appear after 4 weeks

Please share your knowledge. I will not bother you here after, please reply.
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Hey!! What part of no risk is it that you don't understand? ARS? Do you have any idea what ARS stands for?  MOVE ON.
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teak,

thanks for the answer. In this last 4 weeks, i have lost some weight.

This could be any ARS symptoms. Please share ur experience.i am really nervous



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No, you had protected sex.
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Dear Teak & HJK58

I know you people are doing great job to support people like us, Only one last question.

From the exposure i mentioned; should i undergo a test

Please help
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How on earth would Teak know if anyone in the world contracted HIV with a situation similar to yours?  

You don't have HIV - deal with your guilt and move on.
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Dear Teak,

Thanks for the quick reply, which is putting me in ease.

Only 3 quick questions.

1) Should i do HIV test
2) Any one in this world contracted HIV, with my similar case
3) I feel i am losing my weight in the last few weeks, this is any thing to do with HIV,

The reason for my concern is my marriage...please help
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MOVE ON.
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i mean condom with out break..
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