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Please HelP ME!!!

so I wrote earlier that I met this guy who after we hung out 3 nights, he told me that he was HIV+.  Well ALL we did was FRENCH KISS and MAKE OUT HEAVILY/HARD., thats it.  That was this past WEDNESDAY Feb. 6th when he told me.When he told me I freaked out and started to cry.  I said "what if you had cuts in your mouth, he said I don't. Etc.  SHOULD I TRUST HIM?  Well about 3 days later, I started to run a fever of like 98.7 to 99.1 , I just thought that you know it was just a normal body temperature flustrating.  WEll last night, I woek up several times throughout the night, and threw up a couple of times, and my fever got all the way up to 100.02.  So I was freaking out, I couldn't even sleep last night.  Well today my fever is ranging from 98.6 to 99.2.   Now I know HIV can not be transmitted thourhg kissing, but could this be ARS symptoms like 6 days later? SHOULD I WORRY?   WAS I AT RISK?  SHOULD I WORRY ABOUT IT?Please help me and reply to my questions.  Thank YOu in advance.
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he won't ,believe me, he's a worried wells as I am and I just know he'd do anything not to have met that guy ever, what about sex relationship? Mixed couples can last only if they're not so scared and know how to live it.......I confess I wouldn't have the guts !
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there was no risk. but you know engaging in sex is the highest risk.you need to leave the relationship or talk to his hiv speciallist.good luck
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You are just fine......if hr told you he was HIV+ 4 months after you would have the same symptoms. Stop playing with your body and creating anxiety over nothing, since you are just fine and just god the scare of your life. Be safe and start sleeping the nights, for you'll feel better and you'll stop having fever and sweats ;)
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You are just fine......if hr told you he was HIV+ 4 months after you would have the same symptoms. Stop playing with your body and creating anxiety over nothing, since you are just fine and just god the scare of your life. Be safe and start sleeping the nights, for you'll feel better and you'll stop having fever and sweats ;)
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Not transmitted through Kissing. So dont just worry about that.

All your sleepless night and fever is because you are afraid. Stop thinking about this.

Enjoy the life. I know its hard to stop thinking about this. But there is no risk for this situation. So dont worry.
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