oh gee...please dont think that you are the first person to post that their girlfriend, wife, significant other was having symptoms too.
c'mon...what did you want to pro to say?
listen to me...REGARDLESS of what symptoms you might think you and the girlfriend have...you have a 9 week negative test ! ! !
Im trying but I have two things stopping me. 1)Went and saw CSW yesterday and asked her her HIV status, her answer was not yes or not but "you wore a condom right?. I said yeah it broke remember? She shoke her shoulders like "sorry, dont know what i can do for you now" and walked away. 2) I had sex with my girlfreind two weeks after the incident, she has being experienceing all of the symtpoms I originally mentioned. I have not been trong enough to tell her about the problem yet. So I know those symtpoms were not in my head if she is having them also and doesnt know?
anxiety is causing those "symptoms"...NOT hiv.
you have a 9 week negative test result and it is HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHLY unlikely that it will change. relax :)