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Should I be worried?

Hello all,
I had sex August 26th (friday night/ saturday morning) I had oral with and without condom and vaginal intercourse with a condom. Now she says my penis was rubbing against her vagina without a condom, but i don't remember that at all. Anyways, SUNDAY (2 days) night I had a bbq ate meat and i felt nauseous. MONDAY (3days) i lost my appetite and my neck started hurting and i was really tired. Teusday(4 days) went to clinic, i no longer felt nauseous, still lost my appetite, but started getting pain on my neck and back, and I noticed my tongue got white. The doctor said it looks like just a virus, Wednesday (5days) went to the plant parenthood in my town, had pain in my neck(not so much), my back, and under my armpits, and some pain on the sides of my thighs. She said it looks like a virus, but she said HIV is not uncommon. I FREAKED OUT. Thursday (September 1) i started feeling better i can eat normally now. Friday (September 2) to (September 9). I feel a lot better no more pain in my neck or my thighs, not as much pain under my armpits, but i still notice it from time to time. I got an STD check on Tuesday when i went to the clinic just in case i got it from a past girl but everything came back negative. My one question now... Should i be worried about HIV!? I'm reading how symptoms start in like 2 weeks but all this happened as soon as i had sex with that one girl. It's September 12 now a little pass the 2 weeks mark and I fell fine just the small pain in my back and small pain under my right arm, and i still have the white tongue. Today i had a bbq and ate the same meat that made me nauseous the first time, and again, i felt really nauseous. Please. Im freaking out!!!

I never had a fever. No rash. No headache.Doesn't hurt to pee

I felt nauseous, pain on my neck (front and back), muscle aches, my back, my thighs, loss of appetite (lose 3 pounds). White tongue (No sores or lumps on it) ALL OF THIS WAS BEFORE THE 2 WEEKS.

Now September 12 i feel almost one hundred percent it' just that i got really nauseous today, but i don't have a fever and the fact that the doctor from plant parenthood told me that HIV is common... It all freaked me out. Please help!


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Thanks! But what if our genital were rubbing together without the condom? Should i  be worried about that?
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Nope.
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You had no risk from the kissing, fingering, protected penetration and unprotected oral. As long as you had protected sex, you are safe. Dont worry about the unprotected oral as well, it is of no risk for hiv infection. but does carry risk for other STDs. Please post in the STD forum to have your risk assessed.  Be well.

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Sorry I also forgot to mention that we kissed and tongued a lot, i fingered her to. Anyways i talked to the girl and she never got tested because she feels fine, but she did have sex with multiple guys before me. Still all these HIV symptoms happened immediately after sex, but like i said it says symptoms start 2-4 weeks so I'm so worried and confused!
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