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Should I worry

My name is J and I am a 33 year old engineer, living in Thailand. I had an erotic massage session couple of days ago where it turned into a sexual intercourse. Before starting it, I took two condoms from the girl (Durex) and put the two condoms on my penis (for safety). We had like 4-6 mins sex where I ejaculated but I was still inside her. She didnt ejaculate, but we stopped and I went to the bathroom where I removed the condoms slowly and checked them with water, they were fine, no holes, cracks, nothin....BUT, I didn't wash my penis! IS THAT A PROBLEM?? It was a bit wet ofcourse. I went back to continue the massage.

We started a body to body massage, and she started rubbing her body to mine and it happened that her vagina contacted my body many times (legs, back, butt....) and I GUESS that her fluid was touching these places ofcourse. NOW, when I turned over (face up) she did the same thing, until her vagina came to contact with my penis (from outside) and in a certain point it touched my penis head (maybe the urethra) and we stopped. I had a hand-job, where she put aroma oil on my penis and I ejaculated and then we went to shower (not together).

IS there any chance I could be infected by HIV or STD?? I am really scared and didn't sleep since then (3 days ago). If she used my own bath sponge, would that be a problem...?

PLEASE answer me ASAP to rest in peace.

Appreciate it
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You don't have an HIV concern.
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You don't like to read do you? I have already said you didn't have a risk.
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I used 2 just to make it more safe!!
So after u read all what I've written above (this long story), u don't think I need a test??
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Please answer me, am really dying from thinking... can't get it out of my mind
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What is the risk assestment...that you had no risk.

What did I say above?
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Hi Vance2335

Whats the risk assestment?
And are you sure I wont have HIV..? Even if her vagina (with probability of fluid) touched my penis head (also probably urethra)..?? did not enter...
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His reply was that of a risk assestment. HIV is not transmitted from rubbing, you had no risk.

And next time use 1 condom, 2 can cause breakage.
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Hi Teak, I received an empty reply from you... If this was a mistake could you plz send me the reply again..??
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Dear Teak..

Thank you for your answer. But excuse me, is that all...?? nothin to worry about? Even if her vagina (I am sure that there was fluid) touched my penis head, maybe the urethra..?? I dont need to do any tests or anything..?

I know that my questions sounds idiot a bit, but forgive my upset and it cant leave my head at all.... Whats your profession exactly Teak...?
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