My name is J and I am a 33 year old engineer, living in Thailand. I had an erotic massage session couple of days ago where it turned into a sexual intercourse. Before starting it, I took two condoms from the girl (Durex) and put the two condoms on my penis (for safety). We had like 4-6 mins sex where I ejaculated but I was still inside her. She didnt ejaculate, but we stopped and I went to the bathroom where I removed the condoms slowly and checked them with water, they were fine, no holes, cracks, nothin....BUT, I didn't wash my penis! IS THAT A PROBLEM?? It was a bit wet ofcourse. I went back to continue the massage.
We started a body to body massage, and she started rubbing her body to mine and it happened that her vagina contacted my body many times (legs, back, butt....) and I GUESS that her fluid was touching these places ofcourse. NOW, when I turned over (face up) she did the same thing, until her vagina came to contact with my penis (from outside) and in a certain point it touched my penis head (maybe the urethra) and we stopped. I had a hand-job, where she put aroma oil on my penis and I ejaculated and then we went to shower (not together).
IS there any chance I could be infected by HIV or STD?? I am really scared and didn't sleep since then (3 days ago). If she used my own bath sponge, would that be a problem...?
PLEASE answer me ASAP to rest in peace.
Appreciate it