seems to be deeper issues than just cheating on your wife. be sure to get your money's worth out of the counselor ! ! !
the oral was no risk.
As far as the unprotected vagional sex. The person with whom i had sex with was a friend and im fairly certan she is clean. I do understand that this is a problem cauz how can i knwo for sure. My question is a numbers one. If the oral sex i discribed is a problem or not. as well as if possibley she did have something what are my chances. Aslo what are my chances with oral. Is the oral i discribed a high risk. Im very scared. I just want to be a good husdband and father from this point on. I am seeing a councler for my fears but i just cant rest. Im actualy terrified. I want to one day see my grand chinldern. Im sorry to be a bother to all of you very nice helpful people. I just want to know what my odds are.
Thanks again and a happy healthy new year to everyone.
Sorry you said you had unprotected vaginal sex too. You wouldn't be on this forum had you used a condom. You'll have to wait on your test results.
Can't help you with your sexual problems. What we can tell you is that at no time did you have a risk of contracting HIV.