If someone was to have an encounter another with another that has HIV, but used a condom both for oral, and anal, however was rimmed for a very brief moment before. Would that be enough exposure to infect them? They're wife feel ill with flu like symptoms but tested negative for the flu, and is feeling better. However now the significant other has a sore throat with bumps on it and tested negative for strep and now has an upset stomach and heat flashes. Could he have been infected through the rimming? So stress and worried can someone please help me feel better about this situation??