Stretched condom. Any risk?

[blakea]

Hi all,

I was having sex with a guy - I was top- and pulled out and changed positions with him. On withdrawing from the second position , the condom slipped but was on my penis still and the head of the condom was still stuck in my partner and the condom was stretching but looked intact on me. When I pulled it out some fecal matter from him was on the condom ( yuck) but it didn't look like it was broken although it was very dark in the room we were in. There was no fecal matter at all on my penis at all- not that I could see.

Would I have known with no doubt it was broken and am I at risk from what I've described?

[blakea]

Sorry to post again but now about 2-3 weeks later I'm getting a sore throat and major congestion ( I know there's a bug going around ), and getting paranoid that this is ARS.  I'm obsessing that the condom could have been broken and stuck in him anyway ... Although I have been told by someone else that it wouldn't have been trapped in him at all if it was broken as there would have been no traction  it would have just slipped out . Am I right ?

[Apollo1971]

Correct, as there would be nothing to look at and more importantly to take off your penis.

[blakea]

Thanks . So I would have known without doubt it was broken if it was ?

[Apollo1971]

As the condom remained intact and inside him, your penis was not exposed to him and that would mean you did have safe sex and you were not at risk of HIV transmission.