Hi, I was wondering whether someone could give me some advice as I am really scared that I may have HIV. I was in new york back in November of last year (22nd). I went out one night and got very drunk with a girl that I had never met before. She is 24, we ended up having unprotected oral and vaginal sex. In the morning I was obviously very concerned and I did ask her if as far as she new, was she disease free which she replied yes she was. We then went our seperate ways. When I got back to the UK I went and got tested for all STD's which came back negative. Over the Christmas period I started getting stomach cramps in the top of my stomach, I went to the doctor and they gave me tablets to reduce stomach acid which has helped. I ordered an HIV early self test kit in January, this returned a negative result. I returned to the sexual health clinic to talk with a doctor and explained what had happened and he said that I was at low risk of contracting HIV, but that I should return in 3 months to be tested just for piece of mind, (due to return at the end of february for this). Last week I started to experience joint pain, lower back pain, aching legs and headaches at the back of my head. I am experiencing alot of stress and anxiety due to this situation, I am really scared and cannot think about anything else, could the anxiety be causing these symptoms? any advice would be really appreciated