2 months out you will be able to test almost with 100% certainty, some people say 6 weeks others say 2 months.
Odds are overwhelmingly in your favour that you did not contract HIV however. Please let us know the results.
You need to get tested now.A negative result would be a very good indicator as to where your at,and be very encouraging.Test for other STD,s obviously.Another plus is that her hiv test came back negative,however only an hiv test taken at 3months post-exposure will provide you with a conclusive result.Stop being afraid and take the test.Also,hiv is never diagnosed on the basis of symptoms alone.I wish you all the best.