Hi i am a 24 years old heterosexual male from UK. I am circumcised and i am not sexually very active. About two weeks ago i visited an escort in london. She gave me a massage on my back and shoulders with her hands and she was sitting on my buttocks. She was in her bra and pants. Then she gave me a handjob (stimulation) to get my penis erected and then she put the condom on and gave me protected oral (blowjob) and finished me with a handjob with the condom on. There was no vaginal or anal sex.During the whole time she was wearing her pants Now i want to ask you
(1) while giving me massage is it possible that hiv virus got out of her pants and touched my bum and then dripped in my anal area.
(2) Handjob without a condom how much risk is there i didnt see any blood
(3) protected blowjob how risky is it, i read dr hhh comments he says low risk for protected oral sex and he says saliva probably is not infectious seems he is not sure tell me is saliva not infectious in every case or it depends on the viral load.
(4) Finally the escort i saw is posted on the internet as you guys are experts can you assess how risky she looks as she was very attractive in real too here is the link kindly check her out. She has her pics there too. http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=1169577&Keywords=&KeySearch=1&TargetURL=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.adultwork.com%2FSearch.asp
(5) I was reading on the internet that science is not very advance in hiv transmission yet. altough they say saliva urine and tears etc are not infectious but they are not 100 percent sure with every case. Because people cant avoid contact with all these things in gyms public places, public toilets, mosquitos etc they say it is not a documented risk. As one can abstain from sex so they only say hiv is transmitted by sex. do you agree
(6) finally i want to know why is hiv not present in urine sweat whats the difference between vaginal fluids and these secretions.
Kindly reply to all my queries thanks
This is totally irrational thinking. HIV doesn't "jump" out of someone, through their clothes no less, and into someone else. INSERTIVE unprotective anal or vaginal sex is necessary for sexual transmission. You had zero risk.