scared to death

[crying4life]

here is my story..on 13/12/10,i had sex with my fren without using condom n i took out my p**** and ejaculated outside her vagina.im not sure whther i pre cum or not inside her vagina.later on i found out that she had so many bfs before n have sex with them without using condom n i was worried since then.she told me that she never had any ARS symptoms for the past 4/5 months....on 17/12/10 i brought her to the nearest clinic n did a blood test n the result was negative.im so depressed n keep crying everyday and i lost 4kg in 2 weeks coz i dun have mood to eat n i suffered gastric due to that. im still worried n on 4/1/11,i did my blood test n the result was negative.i also did not have any ARS symptoms till 2day

my question is:
a) am i at risk of having HIV?
b) can i rely on her test?she might be still in her 'window period' because of her past sexual intercourse
c) i intends to have a blood test in 6 weeks time from the first exposure.is it reliable?

[Teak]

You never rely on another persons test results. You rely on your test results.

[crying4life]

yesterday she told me that her last sexual intercourse was on the month of 7/8...can i rely on her test which was on 17/12/10?

[Teak]

Wrong...Neither PCR tests will give a conclusive result.

[mikee944]

if you are worried , take a pcr test. this test provides a 100% accuracy at one month but it's expensive.. if you can go and make it and the results will be available at a week or 2

[LIZZIE LOU]

a)  only if she has hiv
b)  exactly...you dont know FOR SURE that she has not had unprotected sex in the last 3 months
c)  6 weeks is a good indication...3 months is conclusive