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Please can anyone give me some advice?
I had unproctected sex with a woman 1 year ago. The woman was now found out to be hiv positive after she went for a test.The truth is that I left that woman ever since July 2007.

Not knowing that risk, I met up with another woman whom I trusted and have several unprotected sex ( more than 10 times having unprotected sex) with her. I have been going out with this woman for 10 months now. Now knowing that the other woman I had sex with is hiv positive our friends suggested me and my currentpartner have hiv test. This scared me to death and I decided not to have the test. You know in this little country our culture is so strong and being hiv positive brings total shame to my family and tribe. I don't want that to happen. I am still undeceided whether to have the test or not.The current partner of mine took courage and went for hiv test in July this year and the result was hiv negative. That was 2 weeks after one of our several unprotected sexual contact. The test was done again one month after but was proved hiv negative. A last test was done almost 3 months later but also proved to be hiv negative.

Another woman whom I was having unprotected sex with during this period had her test proved hiv negative.

My question is that, does the results of their test shows an indication that I am hiv negative?
Or do I still have to be scared of the chances of being hiv positive. Please help me out.

Thank you my friends and may God bless you all.

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Thanks for the comments my friends. Ronyyyy you give me some hope. Teak, i know you really care.

Actually hiv is new here in this country.That woman i was mentioning was one of the five hiv + cases in this country.

We use to think that it was safe here in this country but it turned out to be different. After this ordeal I promised not to ever have unprotected sex anymore. mark my words.
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Can't help you if you won't help yourself. Sounds like you are trying to contract HIV and other STDs.
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you are putting yourself at risks having unprotected sex with multiple partners.
the negative test for one of them is a good indication that you are still safe, get tested at ounce, no matter what country it is, and get tested 3 months after your last umprotected relation for a conclusive test result.
you might be lucky this time, but you might not be in the future
USE CONDOMS
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