Unprotected Anal giver!!! worried.

[arjun807]

Dear All,

It was a situation. I went to attend my cousin brother's wedding and there was a party... Me & my uncle drunk so much and I slept in his room. we both were out of control. It was really a situation. I am not a gay... he is also not a gay.. He is married (Love marriage) and having 5 years kid. Both are working... Since we slept together closely, we started seduce each other like hugging and all.. he did not say anything.. later I gave a anal sex... His underwear is half removed not fully... I am not sure it was penetrated.  I was a giver... he did not do anything. what should I do now? I don't know about his status. I am bit worried...!!! I can't directly ask this to him also. What to do?

[Teak]

Still it's not possible to know, drunk or not. Doesn't matter if your are the perpetrator or the receiver.

[Mak888]

Bug_O_Bug,

Anal sex is very rough and very very hard to pursue without lubrication and when a person penetrated he can know very well No matter hes Drunk or watever in the case of Anal sex.

[Bug_O_Bug]

For a GIVER it is not always possible to "feel" if penetration has actually happened, especially if the giver is DRUNK. The level of certitude that you are exhibiting is baffling.

[Teak]

There is no way possible for a person to have anal sex an not know it. He doesn't need testing. Move along.

[Bug_O_Bug]

Arjun807,

Since you are not sure what happened that night, there is no way for anyone of us to evaluate your risk.

If "chances" are that you penetrated him then get tested after 12 weeks.

[Mak888]

I DID NOT TOLD YOU THAT ANAL GIVER IS AT MINIMAL RISK OR WHATEVER..... BUT I HAVE TOLD YOU THAT YOU HAVE MINIMAL EXPOSURE ( BRIEF EXPOSURE ).

RE-READ MY REPLIES.

[Teak]

More surface area in the receiver than the giver to infect.

[arjun807]

Thanks Mak888. Why Anal giver is in Minimal risk? Just wanted to know the information.

[Mak888]

Arjun,

It is very unlikely that this minimal exposure will lead to an HIV INFECTION AND IT IS ALSO UNLIKELY THAT YOUR UNCLE HAVE HIV.

PENETRATION = RISK

NO PENETRATION = NO RISK

I CANNOT TELL YOU IF YOU PENETRATED HIM OR NOT.

IF YOU HAVE PENETRATED HIM THEN GO AND TAKE A ANTIBODY TESR AT 6 WEEKS FROM EXPOSURE AND FOLLOW UP TO OBTAIN YOUR CONCLUSIVE RESULT AT 3 MONTHS AND EXPECT A NEGATIVE RESULT

[arjun807]

I can completely understand Mak888. May be I don't know my worries are unnecessary... But I want to make sure that I don't have anything... Thanks for your support. But I'm still worried about my result. :-(

[Mak888]

RE-READ MY REPLIES ARJUN.

[arjun807]

Thanks for your reply Mak888.. Its really making my mind ease... But as I told you, I did not know whether it was penetrated or not since we both were drunk and totally abnormal.

[Mak888]

Arjun,

First ,if you PENETRATED HIM THEN ITS HIGHLY UNLIKELY that this MINIMAL EXPOSURE RESULTS IN INFECTION..

second , PENETRATION = RISK = TEST

third , NO PENETRATION = NO RISK = NO TEST.

BOTTOM LINE - IF YOU WOULD HAVE PENETRATED HIM THEN YOU COULD BE KNOW.

[arjun807]

Thanks for the reply.. I really not sure as it was a situation and not Intention. Anyhow I will go for a test.

[Mak888]

If you would have PENETRATED HIM , THEN FOR SURE YOU COULD BE KNOW ABOUT THAT BECAUSE ANAL PENETRATION ARE ALWAYS ROUGH AND HARD W/O LUBRICATIONS.

[arjun807]

Hi,

I am not sure about that... totally drunk.

[Mak888]

NO PENETRATION = NO RISK.