Unprotected oral on each other, protected anal.

[Joeasy99]

Thank you in advance for your time and knowledge. So I'm straight, me and my girl of 1 year seperated and I met a man. Went to his home and messed around. Had been fantasizing about it... I gave him oral (unprotected) no ejaculation (with lost of spit). He gave me oral (Unprotected) also no ejaculation. I put a condom on with a small amount of lube rubbed on it then placed another one over the first one and used lube before penetrating him. He did the same, put a rubber on then a little lube then another rubber and more lube before entering me. I did this in an attempt to make it safer, was fully aware of the friction thing and possibly breaking the condom, thats why I put lube between the rubbers. I asked him at least 5 times if he was clean and about his previous  encounters. He said he'd jerked of another man once. I have read the previous questions and responses, however no encounter is the same hence my questions

1. Oraly both ways was I ever at risk of contracting hiv?

2. During the PROTECTED ANAL both ways was I ever at risk of contracting hiv?

*after the encounter I filled all four condoms up with water and squeezed them in various ways NO LEAK on ALL 4. SHOWERED WITHIN 30 MINS.


Should I test???

[Joeasy99]

Thank you much appreciated!

[RubyWitch]

You had protected anal sex and the condoms did not break. NO RISK FOR HIV AND NO NEED TO TEST.

I'm glad you are aware that doubling up on condoms is never a good idea and even the added lube does NOT make this practice safer.

Doing the "water test" is a complete waste of time. When a condom breaks, it breaks catastrophically. There is virtually nothing left of the condom except a few shreds of latex and the ring at the base of your penis.

Oral sex is not a risk for HIV but IS a risk for other STD's. I suggest you post to our STD Forum for the risks and testing they recommend.