Oral and aggressive frottage

[Confused7383]

Hey guys
Just met a guy from online
Sucked his penis
I then sat on his lap and he forcefully started moving his penis near my hole
I could feel that my hole was wet from possibly my saliva from sucking or it was precum...
I haven't had anal sex in over a year so I would know if he would be inside of me correct? It just felt really wet and force near my hole

.....he then started jacking his penis and started to massage my hole and finger me.....


Any risk for infection?

He said he was clean but idk since I met him online

[RubyWitch]

There is no reason you should not "sleep comfortably!" You had NO RISK for HIV, but you should still be checked for STD's from the oral.

I honestly believe, for your own personal safety, you should stop playing games like telling a stranger you met online that you want to have insertive anal sex just to see what his response was. I told you before you were extremely lucky this guy was responsible and said "No, not without a condom." Please understand that the next time you try that, you may end up with more than you asked for.

Be safe

[Confused7383]

I completely agree.....the only reason I told him I wanted to have insertive sex was to see what his response was....he had asked me when I was in person if I had a condom....then I hit him up online again and he said I should've had a condom and we would've had penetrative sex....I haven't had anal sex in a long time and don't plan on doing that just enjoy frottage ...thanks hopefully I can sleep comfortably

[RubyWitch]

As you've been told, you would know if you had been anally penetrated.
There was no penetration and you do NOT have an HIV risk.
You do have a risk for STD's and should post on the STD Forum
Your rectum hurts from the fingering.

I don't want to be offensive, but you seem a bit naïve about certain sexual practices. You were extremely lucky that the person you met online and had sex with was very responsible in refusing to engage in unprotected anal sex, which is the most risky sex for acquiring HIV.

There is much information out there on safe sex and I would urge you to avail yourself of it. Your local HIV Clinic would be an excellent starting point.

It doesn't matter what you're into sexually, the bottom line is that we ALL have to be responsible and practice safe sex.........we ALL have to protect each other.

[Ftworthstress76137]

No condom no intercourse. Period

[Confused7383]

Thanks so much....my rectum hurts but I assume from the fingering....I asked him afterwards that I wanted to have insertive sex but he said I didn't bring a condom

[Ftworthstress76137]

yes  you would know. ever had a prostate exam by a doctor?
You had no risk. your contact would be considered "frottage"

[Confused7383]

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[Confused7383]

U would know if there was penetration correct? All I felt was him fingering and coming in contact with my hole forcefully

[RubyWitch]

If there was no penetration, you had no risk.
The oral put you at risk for STD's. Post to our STD Forum.