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What do you think about my risk? Protected Anal/Unprotected oral

Hey everyone,

I am a gay male, get that out of the way.  I never pratice unsafe anal sex and never will.  Always use a condom.

Anyway, I dated a guy, asked his status, he said negative and we dated for a few weeks, and I got to know him.  I had protected anal with him as the top and gave him oral (never took ejaculation in my mouth)...we had anal a few times - five or six - always with a rubber.  And I gave him oral a few times, he didn't really even precum.  He found out he is positive.

My physical is coming up and I am pretty damn nervous.  What do you think my chance are?

Thanks everyone, I appreciate your time.
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congratulations on having protected sex. zero risk with an intact condom.("what if the condom had a hole,or popped, etc....") believe  me, you would know if it did pop.
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Any other thoughts about my risk?

THanks!
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Minute to NONE.
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