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HIV-phobia and anxiety- outtercorse
Hello.
Im very happy to reg to this site as i constantly read every info here about HIV.
Well.. im scared.
I had this situation once and it did came out as usuall negative.
Im married and did something wrong with a massage parlour in my country (this is way my english is not very good)
Well.. we havnt done much and it was boring.
But what we did is we rubbed our genitals on one another.
I have no known STD and/or sort of any broken skin or cuts down there. And so did she as i remmeber.
I think its the guilt that bring me the anxiety and the psychosomatic symptoms i feel as i just learning about tham and it lasts for few days. It happend 21 days ago and i fell headache and almost ill. The almost make it guranteed that its just in my paranoid head.
I looked for answers here and every place on web and it says it is a no risk situation but all the latest answer were in 2014 and below.
Im affraid it has been changed or it happend to someone somewhere on earth.
Im surely dont want to be the first.
So to be clearer my questions are :
1. Is that thing called frottage/mutual masterbating/outtercourse/rubbing genitals between man and woman (in this case - CSW)
2. If but only if, and its probably sound dump, she had vaginal fluids all over me down there (i mean her orgasem), what is that means?
3. I touched her vagina with oil and i had some kind of dry skin in my hands (because of my proffession im using lots of water daily).
Is thay any risk ?
4. I came out side while she ejaculate me and i cam on my stomace.
I know for sure even with my anxiety. That the tip of the ureha (sorry for spelling) didnt came in direct contact but im afraid of her fluid somehow did even thou i havnt much noticed because the lube/oil.
If u read that far thank you kindly. I hope to get a solid best answer for its the first time me ever posting on any site other that reading constantly. And im afraid of having sex with my wife. It was a mistake of a wrong conection between us that led me to this. Im filling very guilt.
Thank you all.
Im very happy to reg to this site as i constantly read every info here about HIV.
Well.. im scared.
I had this situation once and it did came out as usuall negative.
Im married and did something wrong with a massage parlour in my country (this is way my english is not very good)
Well.. we havnt done much and it was boring.
But what we did is we rubbed our genitals on one another.
I have no known STD and/or sort of any broken skin or cuts down there. And so did she as i remmeber.
I think its the guilt that bring me the anxiety and the psychosomatic symptoms i feel as i just learning about tham and it lasts for few days. It happend 21 days ago and i fell headache and almost ill. The almost make it guranteed that its just in my paranoid head.
I looked for answers here and every place on web and it says it is a no risk situation but all the latest answer were in 2014 and below.
Im affraid it has been changed or it happend to someone somewhere on earth.
Im surely dont want to be the first.
So to be clearer my questions are :
1. Is that thing called frottage/mutual masterbating/outtercourse/rubbing genitals between man and woman (in this case - CSW)
2. If but only if, and its probably sound dump, she had vaginal fluids all over me down there (i mean her orgasem), what is that means?
3. I touched her vagina with oil and i had some kind of dry skin in my hands (because of my proffession im using lots of water daily).
Is thay any risk ?
4. I came out side while she ejaculate me and i cam on my stomace.
I know for sure even with my anxiety. That the tip of the ureha (sorry for spelling) didnt came in direct contact but im afraid of her fluid somehow did even thou i havnt much noticed because the lube/oil.
If u read that far thank you kindly. I hope to get a solid best answer for its the first time me ever posting on any site other that reading constantly. And im afraid of having sex with my wife. It was a mistake of a wrong conection between us that led me to this. Im filling very guilt.
Thank you all.
While reading this i had too much wrong spelling other that "ureha". Its funny but im hope that u al understand my questions and concerns. Thank u again.
No. Nothing you did is a HIV risk
HIV is very fragile and unable to infect OUTSIDE of its host.
You were never INSIDE the host, even she even had HIV which is unlikely. So your fine
HIV is very fragile and unable to infect OUTSIDE of its host.
You were never INSIDE the host, even she even had HIV which is unlikely. So your fine
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Thank you v much. I dont know why im so scared. I know i protect my self even before ive got married and know what r the limits for the exposure of any king STD includind and mainly HIV.
2 more last questions that was a bit confusing.
1. If i washed my penis 2-3 min after the act, is it any risk ? I heard it is in intercorse by old answer one of the Dr's said but is it the same in outercorse?
2. I have a pain in my eyes as if im cold and had collar bone pain that woke ne up 2 nights ago, not that much of a pain but still woke me up for a min. Is it any sort of early symptoms ? ARS (is that the right word?l
2 more last questions that was a bit confusing.
1. If i washed my penis 2-3 min after the act, is it any risk ? I heard it is in intercorse by old answer one of the Dr's said but is it the same in outercorse?
2. I have a pain in my eyes as if im cold and had collar bone pain that woke ne up 2 nights ago, not that much of a pain but still woke me up for a min. Is it any sort of early symptoms ? ARS (is that the right word?l
No. “Outercoarse” is no risk. Period
Thank you so so much.
Its means a lot to me.
Im now very calm about it and trust my self that i knew what i was doing.
Thank you once again. God bless
Its means a lot to me.
Im now very calm about it and trust my self that i knew what i was doing.
Thank you once again. God bless
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