a statement that is used often is from the CDC...stating that "HIV in unable to survive outside its living host" now a glass of wine isn't a living host therefore unable to infect you, it needs cells to survive, not a glass of wine
Experts' studies. And there's a paid forum for that here on MedHelp if you're not convinced, answered by experts who have been there in the field for decades.
HIV becomes immediately uninfectious when exposed to the air, let alone put into fluid like wine. After all, those caught doing so can go to jail. Please keep that in mind when your OCD tells you you'll be exposed to HIV risk that way.