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Long story short.....I let a guy try to put his penis in my butt( I'm a guy)....we couldn't get it in good... so he just ejaculated on my butt..... not in it....im pretty sure no semen got inside...could I have hiv if he was positive??... it was a one time thing.
It is hard to tell from what you wrote related to if he penetrated you or not. If his penis entered your anus, that is considered a risk. Albeit very low. Less than 1 percent chance and I wouldn't worry. But do test at 28 days after this occurred. If he did NOT enter your penis, then you had zero risk and don't need to test at all.
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He may have got the tip in... then we I realized it wasn't going to work.... I just let him finish on my butt....if he was in there at all...it was maybe 4 to five seconds of trying to push in....even then he didn't cum until he finished on me....what you think??
I'm not going to tell you what I think and it is unreasonable to ask others, strangers who weren't there if there was penetration or not. You decide and then either test or not based on that.
Tell me if if this makes sense...It looks like from everything I've read...I would have to actually have anal sex with a positive person numerous times before I would really have to worry about getting infected.... make sense??.. and considering we didn't actually have anal sex.... im pretty sure I'm ok... even of he came on me amd a little somehow got insode..which I dont think it did the risk is still pretty low...
First I don't even know if you penetrated at all. Maybe you didn't. Second, as I said, worst case scenario that you did, it is extremely low risk at LESS than 1 percent. So yes your synopsis is correct. I would not be worried.
I already told you below that if semen was outside (which is what you said happened) it would be dead hiv so it doesn't matter if it later got inside.
GuitarRox I think you read my story wrong....I was bottom HE was the top...
If there was no penetration there can't be any risk because hiv is dead in air, so only dead hiv hit your butt. The only way to prevent air affecting the semen is with penetration.
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He maybe got the tip in for like 4 to 5 seconds....wasn't going to work so I let him finish on me...not in me...thoughts??
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