can somebody help!?

[gman2042]

im wondering what my risk of getting hiv is,i have only been with one woman who was 17 and im 18 and we dated for about 3 months or around that maybe a bit longer but anyways i was wondering what my risks were with oral sex and some fingering and one very short act of penetration dureing our relationship i just am not sure i trusted her past and a had a mild flu like ilness towards the end of our relationship and have had a lot of the hiv symptoms matching up and stuff so idk but i got 2 home tests the good kind one at 6 weeks and the other at 3 months and both came back negative and with my ex being pregnant they checked her to and she also came back clean but i just am trying to match these symptoms up and idk i feel like were missing something,ive been to 2 doctors and both wouldnt order a test because they said i didnt have it but this just makes me concerned because ppl say that often times doctors misdiagnose it as something else because hiv is out of the question or something and i have anxiety and ocd and i feel like they are just dismissing all my symptoms for that and its annoying,could something have been missed cuz idk wat to do im going crazy with worry about this,and i have had a sore throat for like 2 weeks now so i dont get it....why do i feel like my symptoms match that of hiv and everyone else says im crazy,plz respond,thank you : )

[kumar007]

yes you will get help in the ocd forum..you wont get such help over here
take care

[gman2042]

and thank you,you have been helpful : ) and i appreciate your responses,your response to my question yesterday really helped put my mind at ease but thats the thing...when something goes against the fact that i may have hiv my mind always finds its way back to worrying about it no matter what,whether its a negative tests or in my case 2 negative tests idk,and i dont mean to be a pest but i just need help getting my mind very reassured that i dont have it..so that i hopefully stop this and move on

[kumar007]

i suggest you take your anxiety to the OCD forum..you will get help on how to deal with the anxiety there

[gman2042]

its like no matter what i hear from people i keep comeing back to this hiv thing,everything realisticly says that dont have it,but i have some symptoms like fatigue and sore throat and dry mouth and my ocd will NOT let this go and its driveing me crazy i just want to stop thinking about it and not worry but its like a habit

[kumar007]

if you tested negative and your ex tested negative, then there is nothing to worry about..
go see a doctor for your health concerns..