You can only be exposed to HIV if you:
1) Have unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Share IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.
You stated that you had protected vaginal sex. If so, this is NO RISK. Oral sex, rubbing, kissing, etc are all NO RISK for HIV. Whatever symptoms you are experiencing are absolutely not ARS.
Ps- I did the hiv test 2days ago and the test were negative i know its a bit early for a 100% correct test but i wanted to try to calm my mind a bit.