chills, headaches, muscle pain

[mustang78]

I know what your anser will be but i am heading to gp tomorrow and want to ask the right questions....as you will read in previous post, i got erotic body slide with handjob....she wore thong panties the entire time...since week 5 i have had on and offf chills and headache....hiv did not cross my mind until week seven when chills would not stop...hiv - with antibody test at week 7....chills and headaches did not stop...approximately 9 weeks after exposure began to feel pain under chin and in armpits and chest...headaches got very bad since then and have hard time controlling them even with advil...got hiv antibody at 63 day (negative) which was the moring that the more severe pains started to occur....can symptoms lasting this long have anything to do with hiv....am i seroconverting right now.....this moring i have chills, headache, triceps are hurting, random area on shoulder hurts but no rash or abrasions and i think nodes are swollen(will get gp to check tomorrow)....i really hope these are caused by mono or something like that....My doc two weeks ago did a general blood test and said nothing is wrong....started to exercise daily and take anti-anxiety medicine three weeks ago...cant get symptoms to go away....what do i need to talk with my gp about tomorrow? confused...he does not know what is wrong? i just keep having crazy thoughts that got infected by handjob after she had rubbed oil all over her body to  rub her boobs against me....any help is appreciated.

[ALDOS823]

all these are initial symptoms of hiv exposure,, its best to get an hiv 1 and hiv 2 anti body test after 3 and repeat it at  6 months

[mustang78]

hey guys...i am sorry to be back on here but my body is going crazy....what i can't understand is that i have just received a 130 day negative antibody test. is there any other hit test u would recommend i take.......   but.....i have had diarrhea for the past 3 weeks....chills every night along......profuse night sweating..sweat profusely after shower.....thrown up every other day for the past week....i do not understand why no one will listen to me.....all docs are laughing me out of there office due to getting an erotic massage and hand job but there is something seriously wrong with me......i am seeing a therapis and am taking anti-anxiety medicine...no doctor can figure out what is going on with me....please advise as i am desperate.....dr. hooks clinic looked at my white tongue and ulcerated throat but told me they would only be concernce if i had insertive sex..she told me she would be very concerned of these symptoms if i had a high rush exposure....they said hand job is no risk.....why do i have a white tongue, thrush, and ulcerated throat.....

[zamzam4]

Hon,

There is no doubt, ask any expert, that a 12 week antibody is absolutely 200% conclusive, you do not have HIV.  In fact, although manufacturers will never state this as they are covering their arses, tests will pick up positive people much earlier than 12 weeks.

You do not have HIV.

You DO need to see a therapist.  Don't beat yourself up about it, by admitting you have this issue you are actually being strong and honest and saying that you deserve better.

Speak to you doc, get the counselling, you have no idea how much it can help x

[mustang78]

can i please hear u say one last thing...."a 12 week hiv antibody test is definitive and conclusive"....now i need to see a therapist....my doc has actually recommended counseling  but i told him not yet....thank you very much

[zamzam4]

Well, now you need to move on, you really do.  If you can't see your doctor, they can help.  Mine was a god send and without her I don't know where I would be now.

You will be ok, ok?

[mustang78]

thanks zamzam4...i have been an emotional wreck the last couple months and have been looking forward this 12 week mark....