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Recieved blowjob from possible hiv pos african girl!i had a headache,fatigue and just felt terrible for 5days or so!but during this period i was stressing really bad over the chance of contracting hiv!this was roughly a week and a half after exposure!i took an hiv antibody 1&2test just over 4weeks after exposure and it was negative.
Would this have picked it up after possible ars symptoms?

Secondly its now over 3months after the exposure and i now have had a swollen uvula in my mouth and very red and white spots on roof of my mouth and uvula!could this be because of hiv or am i just losing my mind!i realli need help on this thank you
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That's what we're here for--all the best.
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Thanks for your help
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Coming clean to your wife is your call,this isn't a couples therapy forum,you have been assessed as having had no risk.I would get off the HIV forum & make it up to your wife.
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Will i make my self unwell by stressing about this everyday?its just every time my wife has something wrong with her i stress even more and also with myself!i no people say to own up to what i did outside of my marriage but things arent always that simple
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There are many HIV sites on the internet that are not educated in the modes of HIV transmission.Stop stressing as you had no risk.People come here & post allsorts of senarios thinking they got HIV from a visit to the barber,the dentisit,the testing clinic,from a cup of coffee,a door handle,a towel,do you get where I'm going,none of these are modes of transmission but because they are so anxious their thinking is totally irrational.
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Its just im confused as some sites say transmission can occur from receiving a blowjob! Thanks
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So these symptoms that have happened to me or are happening to me now are just random and i dont need to panic about hiv infection!thank you very much for the reply teak and rainlover
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You had no risk,read the thousands of posts about oral sex & why we say it's no risk for HIV transmission.
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