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could this be reason for concern?

I was on a date with a woman and we went to her apartment and started deep mouth kissing. This went on for lenghty amounts of time. I also sucked on her breasts and we did alot of "dry humping" with me wearing jeans and her wearing pajama bottoms with no underwear. She told me she was very wet. She rubbed her vagina over her pajama bottoms and a little inside them then she was rubbing my penis over my jeans with the same hand. She scratched me with her nails after rubbing inside her palama bottoms. My pants stayed on the whole time even though she unbuckled my belt and reached down but I am not sure if she rubbed the tip of my penis or not.

Since she is of unkown status could this be cause for concern for contracting HIV? I am quite anxious about this encounter. Any comments would be appreciated.  Thanks.

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Ok. Thank you very much. Looks like the biggest problem is my anxiety. I had issues in the past with contamination issues and overcame most of it with professional help and have been in a stressful situation lately and it has resurfaced.
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480448 tn?1426948538
HIV is a very fragile virus, and yes, it isn't easy to transmit.  Oral sex is not a risk either, nor is fingering.

Anal, vaginal sex, sharing IV drug works and from mother to child.  Those are the ONLY transmission routes.
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Isn't oral sex a risk factor? Also fingerings? Maybe it is much harder to contract than I believe..
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480448 tn?1426948538
NO, this is a no risk situation.

HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal or vaginal sex only.
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