cut while fingering

[shabb4]

Hello..i want to get comfirmation...onearly november last year..i went to a massage parlor.during the session..i fingered the masseuse in the vagina..after the session...i rwalised that i had a  Few fresh cut or torn cuticles on my finger that i fingered her with a tiny blood...two weeks after that...some symtoms appeared..i had swollen lympnode..rashes on my hand, leg, stomach and chest..i also develope night sweats , fatigue, tired eyes.
After read in this forum,  i convinced that i had no risk althiigh i had the symtoms..what make me worried is..i had unprotected sex with my girlfriend on early january, exacly two weeks after that..she get sore throat, fever, fatigue and  Tired eyes..i'm afraid that i had infected her..plss..tell me whats wrong...

[Teak]

No kidding, you never had an exposure.

[shabb4]

I got tested today...it was NEGETIVE :)))

[joggen]

Symptoms don't diagnose HIV so they are not discussed here.

[shabb4]

She also easily get tired..what is the ars symptoms? How they appeared?

[joggen]

Not a HIV issue.

[shabb4]

Its unusual...it started with sore throat and then fever, muscle ache..its unusual..

[joggen]

People catch colds.

[shabb4]

I had read it...what concerned me is my gf symptoms..she did no know i had the exposure..but why she got the symptoms..i'm worried that i had infectef her..

[joggen]

Read the forum.

[shabb4]

Hi...why u said fingering is no risk? I several fresh peeled skin or torn cuticles on the finger..tell me

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[nursegirl6572]

For starters...calm down.  Chill out.

Fingering is NEVER a risk for HIV.  That's true even WITH the presence of cuts, scrapes, any opening ini the skin.  This has been discussed here ad nauseum.  Please browse the forum and you will find many of related discussions.

You do not have an HIV concern.  If you cannot accept that, then it's time to get some professional help for the anxiety.

[shabb4]

How can u say this was not an exposure? I am very sure that the cut happened during the fingering...can u explain?

[shabb4]

Comment plss..

[shabb4]

Comment plss..

[shabb4]

PLSS RESPONSE...

[shabb4]

I had read alot about the symtoms and it persist with mine...the that make me worry is my gf...she had sore throat..fever...feeling very tired..and the timing is correct...exacly 2 weeks after having unprotected sex with me...

[Teak]

It's clear you have symptoms but they aren't related to HIV. If you feel unwell see your doctor.

[shabb4]

Please..someone..response.....i'm sure that what i had experienced is ars..the symtoms are very clear..plss

[shabb4]

But my symstoms and my girlfriend symtoms are similar to ars....the cut is very fresh...it happen DURING the fingering and i fingered her about 20 minute...

[Teak]

Not an exposure.