I had a hot oil massage naked and the therapist touched the tip on my penis and the area under the foreskin and dripped hot oil on it. Am I at risk of hiv if she had bodily fluids on her hand or in the oils?
As an adult, the only risk behaviors for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
If you do not do either of those things, you will never have to worry about HIV. Nothing else that you can think of, including the pimple or touching of your urethra, is a risk for HIV.