You cannot be diagnosed over the Internet what we do know is it has nothing to do with HIV.
so I've been dating this girl for a month, and we had sex twice (with very proper use of condom) and masturbated mutually twice (i did not use my hand to masturbate myself as I masturbated her).
the sore I've mentioned in the original post (a chaff in the penis skin) did not get better, it got worse... there is this yellow liquid and it is reddish around it and warm. the wound is yellow and about 0,5cm, irregular. after researching, I think it might be a bacterial infection, and maybe it is chancroid, i don't know. i am scheduling a doctor on monday. it happened about 2 or 3 days after we had sex for the second time.
she was tested for all dsts on february and had sex with her ex boyfriend on one occasion during this year. he never mentioned anything after that about stds neither she never developed anything. i live in Finland and usually stds are rather rare here, and her boyfriend is from Turkey, but I don't know him
i am worried if it is a bacterial infection, since I didn't take a shower after we had sex that time. if it is a bacterial infection, it's ok, i can treat - but can i rely that i don't have hiv since I only had protected sex with her (i did not even allow her to perform oral sex on me). can you say anything to me? i am rather nervous.
best regards,
arizkt
Neither of your situations that you have brought to the forum are risks of contracting HIV.
also another question: mutual masturbation with chaffed skin in the penis - her had possibly did NOT contain her own secretions. No risk, right? cause now the chaffing sore is stinging.