So Scared and sorry

[zum]

Last week I was giving another man oral sex with a condom. After a few minutes without ejaculation, I turned around and received receptive anal sex with the same man and the same condom. this contined for a short while - less than a minute- and it was difficult for him to penetrate me. He was thrusting pretty hard and it would not go in. I turned around and put some saliva on the condom and he tried for about another half a minute. At that time I pulled away and left. When i got home, I found the condom in my underwear. I never felt any ejaculation, and would assume that if he did i would have. I just do not know when the condom came off, and i am so worried. I went to my doctor a week after to get tested for all std's.  Did not get the results of Friday as promised. If these come back negative, I am assuming that this would be a good sign. If any are positive would this mean that there was some contact withhout the condom. I would hope that if he was + he would not have taken the condom off.

Also what is the earliest that you can be tested for HIV. I don't know that I can last the 6 weeks. I am so ashamed of my self and totally depressed at this time.

Thanks

[zum]

I received my std test results today, and they were negative. I had no other risks in the last three months so this appears to be some good news. I have been sick in the stomach for the last few days, my doctor tells me it is because I am a nervous wreck. I was planning on the 28 day test that is supposed to be 95% accurate. Does this make sense?

[ExtremeStress]

good POINT

[ExtremeStress]

I hate when I run into one of those!

[zum]

/my concern with the condom is that at some time it was off since, it was in my underwear. As best as I can remember this could have been for no more than thirty seconds. I am concerned that he irrated the opening and was trying to penetrate me after that. Can you get hiv if the penis is at the opening but is not inserted. Is that considered the lining of he anus that I have read about.

[ExtremeStress]

If you had zero risk (meaning no penetration, or condom with penetration) than a 1 week test is conclusive for the described incident. If you have had previous questionable incidents within 3 months, than a 1 week is not conclusive.

[zum]

Thanks for your reply. I hope that tomorrow that the initial results come back negative. Is one week enough time to be conclusive for the non hiv testing.

[Teak]

I seriously doubt that he took the condom off as you said he did not penetrate you. From what you described you did not have a risk, nor do you need testing.