fingering with torn cuticle / hiv risk

[Gabriel1988]

Hello!

I have the following questions:

Last night I  was a little drunk and had protected intercourse with a sex worker, and I also fingered her. Later I observed that i had torn cuticles on my fingers.
I know I am an idiot for what I have done, but my questions are:

1. Can I have contacted HIV by the contact between her vaginal fluid and my torn cuticles ?
2. Also she masturbated me with her bare hands on my unprotected penis, but she had no cuts or other injuries on her hands. Is there any risk ?
3. How soon can I make an ELISA/Western Blot test (if necessary) ? I can only go to a doctor 3 days from now, so an answer would be very much appreciated.

When I observed the torn cuticles -about 5 minutes after, I rushed home -arrived about 15 minutes after the intercourse and fingering
and I thoroughly washed my hands in 96% ABV alcohol and then in 70% ABV rubbing alcohol and after that as I was very agitated I "cauterized" my torn cuticles with an soldering iron heated to 400 degrees Celsius (750 Fahrenheit).
Yes, again I was stupid, but then I was very worried.

I beg an answer as this is crucial for me. I am an fighter pilot, and if I have any serious viral disease, not to mention a STD one, my career is over.
But even more important is that my whole life is over if I have contacted HIV.

I await your answer and I thank you in advance.

Yours sincerely,
Gabriel L.

[Gabriel1988]

Thank you so much sir for your prompt answer.

[Teak]

You had no exposure.