Hey everyone im 20 young and healthy, Ive actually had a condom failure during anal intercourse with a female that later told me she was positive. As anybody would I freaked out and had so many symptoms for the last 7 weeks. night sweats, diohhera, coated tounge, bad breath, gas, Dry flakey scalp (which i never had b4), weight loss of bout 2kg. I am sure that these are all due to aniexty and stress because here in Sydney, I attend the Sydney sexual health clinic and tested at 43 days after exposure with what they call the 4th gen elisa test. They run off the 6 weeks window period so after my test came back negative just like it did at the 4 week mark. The nurse told me that they will refuse to retest because I dont need it and that I am just going to have to accept the fact that i havent been infected. He also stated that the manufactures indicate that the test is just bout 100% accurate by 4 weeks and that they state 6 weeks to be on the conservative side. I called the Hiv hotline and asked the reliability of any test in Aus after six weeks and they said that its 99.9% and I should move on because thats not going to change. I will admit I am going through some really severe aniexty. I am relieved by the results and trying to let go of it but for some stupid reason I think that theres this hammer behind me that If I do move on and be happy again it will get thrown. I am already seeking counciling from an aniexty clinic due to this and my depression. My real worry is because ..........
no1) Due to symptoms ( which I know are in no means in diagonosing HIV)
no2) The darn controversy bout 6 weeks V 3 month window period. ( GPs are telling me you must wait 3 months)
no3) Given different info about my risk eg some say (1/100, others 1/1000)
I didnt know about PEP, and she was def positive, she was crying etc when she told me so.
What does anyone think about my situation? Some experts would be awsome.