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i am so worried

sir,5 days ago i kissed a girl on the mouth,little deep,little french and little tongue action too for about 2 and half minutes and she gave me handjob for bout 2 and half minutes but i did not cum.now am worried sick i might contract hiv.i dont recall me or her having open sores or cuts in our mouth,her hand or my penus.but my gums bleed a little sometimes when i brush my teeth though the incident  happened late night and i brush my teeth only in morning that day.but what worries me is if i was wrong and didnt notice or there was unnoticeable amount of cuts n sores and blood in my mouth and penus or her mouth and hand or both our mouths, her hand and my penus  while kissing or getting handjob, is there chance of hiv infection.she is not sex worker but i dont know her sexual activeness nor her hiv status.i hav small fever 3days later but hav not taken medicine yet.also i hav diahhria  2 nights ago but gone in morning with no medicine.i am worried sick and feels like my life will end of i get hiv from her.i cant even concentrate in my studies or anything. pls advice.If i wanna get tested I know the window period and feels like forever to wait 3 or 6 months.its driving me crazy.do i need to worry bout a possible hiv infection or not.
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
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thk u lachu and teak.also can i ask u if there is possible infection of hiv if one fondles breasts and nipples and afterwards touch mouth or peanus without washing hands.she is not pregnant nor have breastmilk but if there was fluids or breastmilk on her  breast and nipples i was not aware of or unnoticeable amounts what are the risks.also bout the kissing ,does the tooth decay and one tooth shaking but not coming off yet pose a threat of hiv infection.
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i just copy pasted DR HOOK & DR HHH replies for a post similar to your exposure.

if you want them to answer to your question please post in Doctors forum

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If you want the Dr. to answer you will need to post in the Expert forum pay the fee and ask your question and get the same answer.
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thnk u dr hook,also can u pls answer my query bout the kissing part as well. lachu-ek say not to worry but i would sure like to know ur medical expert advice if to worry or not. i forgot to mention i also have some tooth decay and one tooth shaking but not falling off yet.also are there any case of hiv from kissing known.
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4754423 tn?1364109717
HIV is not transmitted by kissing -French kissing or otherwise.  No one has ever gotten HIV from kissing- this is true even if one or both persons have sores on their mouth or or gum and dental disease- still no risk.

DR HOOK

Neither HIV nor any other STD has ever been documented to be transmitted by hand-to-genital contact, with or without genital rash, small cuts, etc.  It probably never occurs.  

DR HHH
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