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i need help HIV

I am a gay man who had sex with another man. I found out that he is positive... i was the top and he was the bottom. we had oral sex unprotected... anal sex was protected none of his fluids came into contact with me. What should i do... i feel my world is crashing down
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thank you... i feel little at ease
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No it doesn't because you never had a risk to begin with.
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I got my results back from the clinic.... and i test for oral gonorreah.... idk if that can increase the likely hood of HIV
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pleasehelp710 like you, didn't have an exposure, except those facts and move along.
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i hope everything works out for you... Im trying my best to relax... but idk
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maybe it is fear i dont know

but i also told them that i had put my penis in his *** for a hot second and took it right out to help me jerk my penis. they said even then wasnt no risk

Is this true or not true, and how much should i be worried
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thank you... I just hope everything goes ok. It seems no clinic wants to give me the Pre exposure medication, because they say it wasnt no risk.
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186166 tn?1385259382
fear is not fact !
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we are in the same situation, in this forum, we get answwer(no risk)  wich is good to hear.
but just as and advice to u and my self
if u get away from this one
just do put ur self on this esenario anymore, trust me it dosent worth it.
i u are homosexual fine for u,, just use condom in all ocasions even oral sex
like that,
u wont be worrie at all
good luck
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Are yall sure... maybe im jyst over reacting..... idk..... but im scared
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186166 tn?1385259382
you had PROTECTED sex and hiv is not transmitted through oral sex.

as joggen stated..."Not a hiv issue"
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Then what issue is it...
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Not an HIV issue.
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