I'm so scared I might have HIV, do you think I can get HIV from this?

[xjj]

Ok so I hooked up with this guy and he told me he was negative. so we tongue kissed a lot and then we gave eachother oral and then he was licking my anus. He then put his fingers in my anus and then he put on a condom and put his penis  inside my anus. and it hurt so bad I told him to take it out and then he did. then he continued to stick his fingers inside. then he came in a condom outside my body. my anus hurt so did that mean I was bleeding and if so if he licked his fingers and stuck them in can I get HIV from that? can I get HIV from his saliva or anything. idk if I was bleeding and idk if he was bleeding. I'm scared to death and the 3 months are taking forever. if he had a cut in his fingers can I get hiv if I had a cut in my anus and his fingers touched it or something. someone please answer me I need help! if I accidentally swallowed some of his semen or pre-semen can I get HIV ? I think my hole might of been bleeding since when I cleaned myself up I went hard and it started to bleed an hour before I did this. I also brushed my teeth an hour before. I can't sleep, I can't eat, and it's all I think about. PLEASE HELP!

[Vance2335]

You had no risk.

[xjj]

Thank you for making me less worried. I feel so paranoid but I'm gonna try to stop thinking about it. but I can't look at my friends or family and thinking I won't be here after like 15 years. I was also having diarrhea for the past 2 days and that was a symptom so in worried about that now. and my stomach has been hurting on and off since the day after and my head hurts when ever I think about it. are these symptoms ?

[linneaostbye]

Hey,

I understand your anxiety.First of, oral is HIGHLY unlikely to produce HIV. There is no HIV virus in saliva. Unless somehow he was bleeding from his mouth, and was able to directly position that into the anus, it is impossible. He used a condom, meaning there was no direct contact between your anus and his penis. So that scenario is not going to give you HIV. He also did not ejaculate into your anus, further reducing the already non-existent chances. There might be HIV present in pre-ejaculate fluid, however, swallowing this, would not give you HIV.

I must tell you, although anxiety is bad, your situation is not going to produce HIV. We do not even know his HIV status. I must warn you however that 20% of people with HIV do not know it. That is why condoms are ALWAYS a must. The only way you can get HIV is from an already positive HIV partner. However, even sleeping with an HIV positive partner will not DEFINITELY mean that you have HIV. The odds are usually 0.01% of contracting HIV with an HIV positive partner everytime you had sex!

Please do not worry. There are many people on here with a lot more high risk. They are priority. Good luck.