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Okay here is my question!!!.  A little over 6 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a female.  I am Male.    I know she doesn't do drugs at all.  It was a one time deal almost ruined other parts of my life.  I used a condom about half the time and then took it off for some stupid reason.  I live in a small town in Wisconsin.  I never finished myself and got up and left.  I was okay for awhile and then some stress came into my life.  While around the same time the stress came into my life after 5 panic attacks in one day the next day my stomach hurt, it hurt for around 4-5 days off and on.  I started thinking that this is the signs of hiv.  So i started freaking out.  I went to the doctor and had them check me over and check my lymph nodes all over my body.  Everthing was good the doc says.  So at 6 weeks I had and hiv test rapid 20 minute test.  Came back negative.  I am still freaking out because of the 3 month window period.  My fiance right now didn't feel good for the last couple of days.  Her stomach hurt just a little after eating each time.  But went away afterwards.  Worried that these are hiv symptoms.  What are my real odds of being infected right now.  Should I be worried.  I guess that is a dumb question i probably should be.  The lady at the aids testing place tells me she is like 97% positive I don't have hiv with my risks and with the negative test at 6 weeks.  I saw another doctor yesterday to see if he thought there was anything with my nodes or body that he could notice and he said I seem fine.  And also says He is 99.9% positive I am fine.  I don't understand how these people can be so sure.  I am 29 years old and have a lot of anxiety.  Before this happened also.  I am on meds for anxiety and just pray to god I am okay.  I have like 40 days to wait for the 12 week test.  What do people think.  Please give honest real answers.  Thank you so much,
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You were given when to test and obtain a conclusive negative result. This has been discussed over and over if you want to read more use the search function in "search this community" and read all the explainations.
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How hard is it to contract from a female.  And why do some people and doctors on this forum say 6 weeks in conclusive.  Why in MA do they say 6 weeks is conclusive.  What is the deal with so much conflicting info!!!
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That you have 13 weeks in the US to obtain a conclusive negative test result.
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