need honest advise worried crazy for 2mos

[joejoe81]

me and my hubsand was having sex after being seperated for over a year. Im not sure of his status but i tested negaive 6mos ago. however,  we had sex and i noticed a really wet pastey feeling inside my vagina. I checked to see if the condom had broke but it was still on his penis in a erect manner. I inspected the condom futher and noticed that ther was cum inside the condom..then i filed the condom with water to see if there was a leak and i noticed a rip at the very top near the rim. (top not tip) so every since january 19 i have been worried sick. im so scared i cant focus in school and nothing seem to bring reasurrance. I CANT STOP OBSESSING...IN MY MIND I HAVE HAD EVERY SIGN.....MY QUESTION IS SHOULD I BE WORRIED.....ALSO IT WAS HAD TO DETERMIN IF THE WET PASTEY FEELING WAS MINES OR HIS....IT DIDNT HAVE A STRANGE SMELL...I KNOW MY SENT BUT IM NOT SURE WHAT CUM SHOULD SMELL LIKE IF IT SHOULD SMELL.....PLEASE HELP BECAUSE IM AM TRULY MOMENTS FROM A NERVIOUS BREAK DOWN...PLEASE HONESY ADVICE!!! THANKS

[joejoe81]

thank you so much for ur imput...the fact that no one else has replied is scary!! but thank you!!

[kumar007]

there is no risk for hiv if condom was used in the proper manner
as u said the rip was at the very top not tip n ur husband was erect when u checked
so dont worry..